Not devaluing that Olga made a mistake sticking around, because, really, she did. Mods stand on the worst side of this and I'm not going to say they aren't, but I think you're underestimating a four to two or a four to one convo, Anon. Especially in a decently fast-communicating social media like Plurk, it's very easy to feel like you're being overwhelmed and cornered in that sort of situation. And it's even worse if you're suffering some sort of headache/migraine issue like Olga was at the time.

I consider myself someone to who socializing comes fairly easily, and if I was being talked to like that four to one, I would have bailed in a heartbeat. Olga absolutely should have bailed, yes, but that doesn't make bringing in "moral support" of three other people one who, again, wasn't even involved in the game and absolutely should -not- have been involved in an active discussion with mods right.